I have been talking with several friends over the last month or so who have been struggling with relationship strife. They were each in a position where they had to make a decision. And here is they hard part, they thought they had made a decision when in reality they were still leaving it open to what if -- to the possibility of not having to commit to a decision that is so hard to make. This is a dangerous but sneaky position of indecision. And it happens all the time in life around major decisions, especially the difficult ones.

This sneaky indecision is dangerous because, for all intensive purposes, a decision has been made. But somewhere inside doesn't want to let go just yet. So we hold on and hold out. We do not truly draw a line in the sand just in case.